Attention please
I know that most of you are bored from my stutter posts, but as Bo ghazi once commented on one of my previous posts: "TF, post whatever you wanna post whenever you feel like it. I mean after all its your blog right" and he is right. Attention please If you know a person that stutters please give him/her all your attention when he/she speaks, I know that it is some times boring for you to wait for a stutterer to complete his/her speech, still it is better than him/her suffering the rest of his/her life. When I begin a dialog, the person that I am talking to usually pays me attention until I start stuttering, any other thing in this world could take the attention from me. Some times people ask me a question and when I start answering I get stocked in blocked words, which make them ignore me and start another dialog with another person. At this moment I feel that I want to cry and can’t wait to go home to start crying . When I reach home I run to my room; Still I can't cry. That bad feeling stays there and it could stay for days then goes but when ever I remember it I want to cry. Most of you had seen “The other sister” movie. For those who did you know the part when Carla shouts at people: "Don't laugh at me" I some times want to shout at people: “Attention please”.
posted by True Faith @ 3/22/2005 09:00:00 AM
12 comments
12 Comments:
I have this movie ... I like it :)
Ra-1,
Do you cry when watching it? I cry like a baby :"(
bo rashed,
I don't cry in front of people. I never show my weakness.
I prefer crying in my room and not letting any body know that I am crying.
But I don't know why I just couldn't cry.
I cry when watching a Movie like "The other sister', But never cry when I feel that I want to.
Al, :p
Never so that movie. Glad that you're still expressing your feelings though.
I had a friend who stutters & I knew since college, & I still see him from time to time. When he talks I used to avoid eye-contact coz I felt that by staring at him he might be embarrassed. And I gotta admit that I also used to try to finish his statements thinking by doing that i'm doing him a favor. After reading how you felt & how you'd prefer ppl react when you speak, my atittude has changed dramatically. Always maintain an eye-contact and never try to finish his sentence. All that thanx to you TF :-D
Bo ghazi,
God bless you and him :)
you know waht i can give you all the attention and go with your word flow without listing a word of what you are saying :)
be careful
the best crying is that for ALLAH
the best in status and in feeling
dont let stuttering be a problem 3adi, your like a mountain
and there is no strenth except by the help of Allah
crying is sometimes not a weakness
it is in 2inkissar for Allah in some cases and Allah gives you 3izah
nooni,
Then I could talk to you randomly and say bad things to you with out you knowing :P
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Mr.sensible,
Thank you for your caring comment.
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hehe oo its happened alot to me :P
TF Said: "I don't cry in front of people. I never show my weakness."
Crying isn't a weakness. We mustn't let our emotions consume us, but that certainly doesn't mean we shouldn't have emotions!
Not reacting to another's pain, or not even recognizing our own pain, now that could be a weakness. You go on and cry.
And by the way, you have my complete attention. The content of the communication is so much more important to me than the speed with which it is received! And I happen to like the things you say. ;)
Simon,
:D a big smile for you
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