Responsibility
As much I hate taking the responsibility of things as much I do. I have always taken the big parts of paper work in School as well in College; when there is a Paper work I always take the major work; I don’t trust others in completing the work so I think if I took it my self it would be better for me and the group; they never mind. My sister throws a birthday party for her self every year; and I tell her that I am not going to do any thing, I will just buy her a gift; and I end up doing every thing. At work I do the same; I will not take anybody’s work; it will be only mine that I will do; And when someone is in a leave I end up taking all of his work. When my parents travel, I ask them to give there kids enough money because I am not going to give them any If they come asking me for money; and I end up giving them most of my salary. I love kids so much; yet I don’t want to take the responsibility of rising my own. Will I end up having my own dozen? :/
posted by True Faith @ 5/25/2005 10:11:00 AM
21 comments
21 Comments:
mashallah dozen! :)
Imagine that; me a mother of Dozen :/
Bo Rashed,
Long time.
I tried to not take others work; But I just couldn't not offer my help when needed.
Family wise; ask the expert :p
:)
That's ok .. helping others is not that bad ..but just don't overload urself ..
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Raising your own chilidren .. the most enjoyable resposibilty on earth ..
You can easily have a dozen .. if u are one of the mothers that I talked abt in my lst post ;D
I understand what you mean. I was in similar situations many times & especially during college. If I was in a team (which I don't like to be in one) I used to make sure I'd so all the hard parts (if not all), not because i'm a good guy or that I wanna help my colleagues, but its purely because I don't feel they would not do their job properly (or at least the way I want it). Unfortunatly (& bo rashed is right about it) some people might take advantage of the habit & use you to do some tasks that they should take care of, and here you should say it loud ENOUGH or as they say it in Egypt "Kifaaya" :p
Let them take responsibility, the results might not be as you wish at first, but eventually they'll realise that you wont always be there to do what they should do.
oooooofff... long comment, need a break:P
oh & Dozen is too much. I know a lady who used to work with us, she had 6 twins (yes 6 mashallah)... I think the goverment provided her with financial suuport or something.
Broken,
I have been taking care of my two little brothers; It is good but not that good :p
Bo ghazi,
ooooofff
Long comment, I have to have a break after reading it:P
Bo ghazi,
I some times say enough and some times galbi ma y6awe3ni.
As for the dozen; I was just wondering about it.
I think two will be enough for me.
I don't know you well but I imagine you're the kind of woman who is surrounded with atleast 5 kids ;)
Don't say tha; My mom thinks that I will have 20 :s
Well as I said.. you seem like a loving, caring person who loves children & I guess boodi & Loosh are madly in love with you :)
Bo ghazi;
My face is blushing :p
Bo rashed;
Yes reasonable if they were 3 girls and 3 boys but never good when the number of boys exceeds the number of girls.
I don't like responsibilities but they seem to follow me around specially now in my new position at work! Before I had a supervisor to go to, now people come to me!
As for the kids, I would like to have 4 minimum, 2 boys and 2 girls so that each will be 3am/3amah and 5al/5alah :P and I like the 2 girls to be born before the boys ..
yeah a nice darzan of kids running arround the house knocking everything in their way
:P
Hopeless,
Nice equation :P
Q8ibloger,
Yeh, knocking everything in their way even your peace.
come on kids are like angels :)
or like shytans in 3ameya:P
I want them all boys :p
When I read your post I remembered an old saying by Lewis Carroll:
"One of the deepest secrets of life is that all that is really worth doing is what we do for others"
Hmmm... Kids!
A year ago, before I did my Paediatrics (children medicine) attachment, I used to think the more kids you have, the more fun you and they will have. Now that I worked with kids for 2 months I cannot stand the idea of having kids around me- those little innocent creatures can so easily turn your life up side down lol that is just me, and I know that I am an exception! No one I know agrees with me!
Anyways
May god fulfil your mother's whish and give you 20 kids!
its my first time to read your blog
very nice one , i liked it so much
فى مثل عندنا فى مصر بيقول :
مش كل قط يتقاله يا مشمش
ومش كل من ركب الفرس خيال
وانا باقول مش كل من كتب المدونات مدون
اليوم كسبت مدونة جديدة اتابعها بشغف
Thank you Osama.
That was really sweet of you :)
You are always welcome :)
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