What went wrong?
Setting on a table with my mum, sister and relatives looking to the entrance to see this gorgeous lady wearing a long white dress and holding a bouquet of flowers walking throw the hall with a wonderful background song describing her beauty; you could see the joy coming from her soul throw her eyes, with a beautiful smile she sits waiting for her groom to come; a man that she loved and he loved her for three years. Here he comes with his father, her father, and brothers, relatives and friends followed by a traditional band. His eyes is looking towards her as if there is nobody in the hall but her; he gives her a kiss on her head, shakes hands with his father, father in law and the others and they go out. They sit near each other waiting for the time to leave the hall. The wedding party was perfect, they went to spend there honey moon abroad, they loved each other for three years, and after four months they are divorced. Why?
posted by True Faith @ 6/09/2005 09:01:00 AM
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well... i think bo rashed has stated many reasons & one of them could be it. It really bothers me when I hear such thing.. bothers me more when ppl start the gossip trying to speculate why did the get a divorce & maybe she/he did so & so...etc min alkalam illy maywadi wala iyeeb!
Chemistry
Your question reminded me of a story/theory told to me by a recently married friend. He was my roommate back in the states and he knew me very well, especially the fact that I ain’t a big talker (so was he). HE TOLD ME “DON’T GET MARRIED!”
His story/theory is that a study was done to figure out how many words people speak per day. What they came up with is that men speak approximately 3,000 words a day, while women speak 30,000 words per day (on average of course).
The scenario started whereby the man comes back from work having spoken 2,500 words already in his workplace (legitimately), on the other hand, the woman comes back from work having spoken 15,000 words at work (no comment on the legitimacy of the spoken words). The math is that the man has 500 words left to speak while the woman has 15,000 she must terminate before the day has ended.
Can you figure out who the victim (per say) is going to be?
No offence meant to women by the story/theory above, it’s just something I recalled after reading this post.
Have a nice weekend!
Bo rashed;
What you wrote is reasonable enough.
Bo ghazi;
Yeh this really bothers; why couldn't they just say ""Makoo ne9eeb".
Playa hater;
Well I think I speak 300 words a day only. So who's the victim now :p
Seconds after I commented above I received an email from a female colleague that had a picture in it.
Have a
look!
2ithfar bi thaat adeen taribat yadak
:)
it is obvious what went wrong! love for 3 years!!! who said love before marriage is the key to a successful life after marriage! I see it is the opposite :)
nothing happened, 3 years is long enough.
i think bo rashed said everything i had to say lol
The relationship before marriage can be both good or bad;
Good: if the couple was mature and knows what marriage is all about, this way preparation starts and planning gets on
(and please dont say that dont work cos it does to MATURE people)
Bad: if they were not mature (ya3ni playing games)
or
if they found out that the other person is hell and cant be taken up with (that can be good too ;))
SORRY true faith this does not answer your question but felt the need to clarify the relation thing
What went wrong? Many a speculation may produce the correct answer, but not necessarily.
It's a Gamble or Tawakkul, if you like.... There is never the perfect way; there is always a risk.
No matter which way you look at it. A pious woman/man can turn out the opposite later on in life; A bad man or woman may turn out pious in later life.
No matter whether it's a love marriage or arranged one; traditional, conventional, secular, religious or modern... there is always the risk.
But one has to try the best way they can; do their homework/research... It is one decision in your life you may regret or not. Your decision; your life; you live with the consequences..... That is for whoever wants to get Married.
In brief: No matter what we say, being the far ones looking at it from a distance, we will never be able to point our fingers at the cause.
The reasons listed (maturity, compromise, love, etc. etc.) may be common and may contribute to the success or failure of this union, but no one can tell what went wrong - maybe not even the victims of this break-up themselves.
I just hope that this break-up brings more good than bad to all sides.
No body can say what went wrong, but the two individuals in the relationship. The problem is most couples don’t want to put the time and effort to make the marriage work. People are lazy in general and as most of you know Kuwaitis are double lazy :)
Hi all;
All your comments are reasonable; yet as illusion said "No body can say what went wrong, but the two individuals in the relationship".
Yet this quick divorce is increasing in our community and I hope that none of you would go through such situation.
Oh, Playa hater,
That wasn't funny :p
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